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‘Sex has become a good thing’

Peggy Antle, manager of Our Pleasure, says “Fifty Shades of Grey” has gotten people out of their comfort zone and locked in the bedroom. Meaghan Philpott

Peggy Antle, manager of Our Pleasure, says “Fifty Shades of Grey” has gotten people out of their comfort zone and locked in the bedroom.

Published on September 5, 2012
Published on September 4, 2012
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‘Fifty Shades’ trilogy changing the way people think about sex, reading

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West Street , Corner Brook Plaza

CORNER BROOK — “I need a set of them silver balls that’s in that book.”

That’s a line Peggy Antle hears almost daily at work.

As manager of Our Pleasure on West Street, Antle says it’s not unusual for customers to request certain items.

But since spring, a lot more men have been requesting items for their ladies. And, there’s a lot of ladies buying silver balls for themselves, she said.

The balls are kegel balls, and the book is “Fifty Shades of Grey” by British author, E.L. James

Since the best-selling erotic trilogy gained popularity in May, Antle has not been able to keep kegel balls in stock.

In the novels, a dominant male carries out his sexual bondage fetishes with his submissive female partner.

Antle said kegel balls have been around for years, and are often doctor-recommended for women to strengthen pelvic muscles.

In the book the balls are used to arouse — and it seems people want in on the action.

In her three years as manager, Antle has not had this much difficulty getting stock for any item she sells — be it lubrication or lingerie.

She can’t estimate how many kegel ball sets she’s sold, but they usually don’t last a day.

Antle has been almost two months trying to get more kegel balls from her suppliers, with a steadily growing wait list next to the cash register.

The problem is, her seven-or-so suppliers can’t get them either.

“It was to the point where the suppliers were calling me and saying ‘we don’t have any left’.”

But it’s not just this city that’s hard up, Antle said. The chain’s five other provincial stores are selling out too, especially on the east coast.

Kegel balls are not the only hot seller. Other items mentioned in the novel have also become a novelty.

Our Pleasure stores saw the need to supply customers with the main toys in the books, so they put together kits that included: a little leather whip, blindfold, handcuffs, nipple clamps, mini vibrator, butt plug and kegel balls.

But with inventory at a low, Antle’s store could only get enough items to make 10 kits. And, there was a wait list for them before any of the stock was even available.

“I stopped at one of the gas bars the other day,” she said. “And a lady said ‘are they in yet?’”

Antle suspects the books have done wonders for heterosexual couples in the area, and elsewhere.

“All of a sudden sex is a good thing,” she said. “It doesn’t have to be kegel ball ... all of a sudden using a toy to enhance their sexual experience isn’t a bad things anymore.”

Most of the couples that enter her store looking for the ‘Fifty Shades’ toys are in their 30s or older, ranging to senior couples.

“I find it’s more of the mature couples, that have been together a while and are looking for something to spice things up,” Antle said. “Trying little things, to make things happier.”

She said she sees hesitation on people’s faces when they first cross the door step of her store. But it seems, the novel’s steamy plot has gotten people out of their comfort zone and locked in the bedroom.

“People are afraid to try things (at first),” she said. “But they usually come back the second time ... and the third time.”

The local sexual-health shop is not the only business that has been run off its feet with the Fifty Shades phenomenon.

 

Like Twilight for teens

Lynn Gillam, manager of Coles book store in the Corner Brook Plaza, said erotica sales have been “on fire.”

“Every second customer in line has ‘Fifty Shades ...’ or something similar in their hand,” she said.

At its peak, the store would put 98 copies of a title on the shelf and by suppertime it would be sold out.

In the past three months, Gillam said the store sold 3,500 hard copies of one of the titles, or the box set.

Gillam says this genre of novels is doing for adults, what the Twilight saga did for teens.

“It’s creating a bunch of whole new readers. They’re buying the book and say ‘I don’t even read’,” Gillam said. “Not only women of all ages are reading it, even some men are reading it.”

The trilogy are not the only books leaving the store’s shelves bare.

Gillam said other erotic literature is picking up, such as Sylvia Day’s “Bared To You” that centres around a woman’s obsession with a man.

That novel was published before the others, but only gained staggering popularity after the “Fifty Shades” series was released.

 

 

 

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  • Username
    Just Sayin'
    - September 10, 2012 at 16:48:11

    To STEVEO - I read this article online, I made comments about it online, and I responded to comments (both about it and myself) online. I feel safe in saying yes I've heard about this thing you called "...the internet..."! (Do be offended, you're making a decent point. I'm just toying with the premise!) I also know what the internet is capable of providing to my children, hence the previously mentioned monitored computer usage and a plethora of parental controls. You are 100% right and I agree with you, that this article (or any other article in this newspaper) should be the least of my worries. My problem is that if articles are going to contain graphic phraseology such as this one did they can no longer be the least of my worries. I expect this type of stuff from one, but should never have to see it from the other!

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    puss
    - September 7, 2012 at 14:29:18

    @JUST SAYIN' Did I address you in any way? No. Calm down. What are you so defensive about? I did not call you out at all. This article is being raved about everywhere. Not just in this forum. You might want to learn to manage your freak-outs.

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    Just Sayin'
    - September 7, 2012 at 13:59:00

    To NEWSREADER - the comment by PUSS was rife with errors, and ended with an insult. That you called it "...reasoned and balanced." reflects poorly on your judgement. You continued by calling me "...righteous-minded...", a "...lazy thinker.", and "...repressive...". You accused me of going into "...hysterics...", and you called my writing "...mush." You suggested I might be "...the kind of parent who would try to ban a book...". Oh, wait!!! NOW I see why you thought PUSS was reasoned and balanced...birds of a feather, and all that! You said distortion is no way to argue, yet you "...applaud..." PUSS's misrepresentations and resort to the same tactics yourself!?!? Once again, you're completely contradicting yourself while trying to condemn others! Also, "...defending children..." is not an "...excuse...", as you implied. If young children, by law, are prevented access to explicit, graphic sexual content in adult publications why should graphic sexual content be accessible to them in any form in a general publication newspaper? Protecting our children is not an excuse. It is an obligation that I, and most of the others who commented, take seriously enough to have taken issue with parts of this article! On a final note: both you and PUSS seem to have the capacity to write well, but you both seem more interested in being 'right' than you are in being accurate! Watching both of you use those writing skills to attack the commenters instead of debating the issue is like watching someone use a bright, shiny Cadillac to haul useless, smelly trash! It's just a waste, and that's a shame...I'm just sayin'! Good day to you both!

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    Just Sayin'
    - September 7, 2012 at 12:07:00

    To PUSS - If you had read my original comment, or my response to NEWSREADER, you should have noted that I, too, have no issue with the general topic of this article. Hence my use of the phrases "Valid story,.." and "The article and it's point (which I have absolutely no issue with)...", among others. YOU felt it was "...maybe not a front page news article..."; I simply felt it "...should have been far more careful with its wording!", specifically referring to the one phrase quoted in my first comment. You wrote 'If you are mortified by your child learning about sex...'. Wrong, again! I look back to my response to NEWSREADER and there it is, in black and white - 'If my 15 year old wants to be inquisitive about nipple clamps, butt plugs, and whips he's free to ask, and he knows it." Hardly the mortification you claimed! In addition to being inaccurate with several of your points, you claimed I'd probably shame my child for masturbating. That slur had no bearing on the point being made. It was a cheap shot taken in lieu of a rational response...shame on YOU for stooping so low!

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    Newsreader
    - September 6, 2012 at 15:53:21

    @Puss. I applaud your reasoned and balanced comment. Nicely done. On any given day of the week there is front page reporting of sexual assault trials, and arrrests and convictions on similar crimes. Does anyone criticize such reporting as unnecessary or inappropriate for children and their consumption? But the Westerns Star publishes a single frontpage item on healthy adult sexuality, and boom: righteous-minded and self-described tolerant people go into hysterics about Google not being an "unfettered portal" or somesuch mush. Just Sayin' - you could just as easily tag yourself 'Just Twistin' or Just Obfuscatin' or Just Garblin'. You're putting words in my mouth if you want people to think I believe in relaxing age laws against alcohol, tobacco, gambling, pornography or whatever else. Distorting meaning is no way to argue. You sound like the kind of parent who would try to ban a book from your child's school for containing a swear word or teens discussing sex - all the while arguing yourself in favour of intellectual freedom in education. I do not think you are as comfortable around sex issues as you'd like to think. And defending children will always be the handiest and easiest excuse for lazy thinkers who want to justify their own intolerance and repressive impulses.

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    puss
    - September 6, 2012 at 12:11:36

    So here's the thing. Sex is natural. It's beautiful. Talking about sex is nowhere near as offensive as constant headlines in general newspapers about mass murders. I would rather have my children read about (and not fully understand yet) sex than about shootings and robberies and murders and death etc etc... Go find something else to complain about and go find another newspaper to read. If you are mortified by your child learning about sex, maybe you need to re-learn about sex yourself. Way to go Western Star. Maybe not a front page news article but definitely one that should have been included somewhere in the paper. My children are fully informed and I do not hide anything from them. If they ask a question that is a little uncomfortable, I answer it as best as I can. Nipple clamps are tiny clamps that can be applied to the nipples of adults to create slight to moderate pain by restricting blood flow from erect nipples by applying pressure to them. I bet you are the same kind of person that would shame your child for masturbating as well. Get over it.

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    Just Sayin'
    - September 5, 2012 at 18:32:39

    To ‘NEWSREADER” – Good reporting should include good detail, but it should also include a strong dose of tact, and there are most certainly times when the paper should ‘think twice, print once’! You have suggested that this entire article would have been critically flawed by the exclusion of the few words in question. If you feel the rest of the article could not stand on its own without the use of those few words then you can’t, in all honesty, claim it to be good reporting as a whole! You are contradicting yourself while trying to condemn others!!! And while you feel that children ‘…don’t read the paper, generally…’, are you able to state, without doubt, that NO children read this publication, EVER…I think not! (By the way, today’s children are tomorrow’s customers...if none of them are reading the paper today then God help The Western Star tomorrow…I’m just sayin’!) As for considering what my role as a parent should be, I have. If my 15 year old wants to be inquisitive about nipple clamps, butt plugs and whips, he’s free to ask and he knows it. But are you seriously suggesting I should, as a ‘good parent’, engage in a conversation to explain sexual bondage, domination and submission to my 10 year old daughter??? Are you??? Google is not necessarily an unfettered portal to the world’s knowledge. Monitored computer use and properly applied controls can easily restrict what information is accessible, and as far as I’ve been led to understand, both these measures are considered ‘good parenting’! Perhaps we should extend your ‘…if they can get it anyway…’ rationale…let’s toss the age requirements for drinking, smoking, and gambling. After all, they can get it all anyway! Sadly, as soon as your parenting logic is applied to more mainstream commodities its flaws become embarrassingly apparent. Speaking of embarrassing, I’m far from embarrassed about sex, sexual health, sexual fun, and sex toys. I am embarrassed for you, however. You rose to condemn without being fair, or factual. You ignored parts of the previous comments that actually supported the article, and just focused on the exceptions to the use of a few graphic phrases. That, unfortunately, renders your points null and void, and your response itself worth ignoring!

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    Newsreader
    - September 5, 2012 at 16:41:29

    Good reporting is all about detail, so good job Western Star. Without the details which a couple of commenters complain about, the feature would not have been as meaningful, and the paper should not have to censor itself. As far as young children go (I have three), they don't read the paper generally - so why the fuss? And if your adolescent wants to ask you what a nipple clamp or a butt plug is for, consider it part of your role as a parent to explain. If you don't, they'll Google it for themselves anyway -- along with all the other stuff you're so embarassed about.

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      facepalm
      - September 6, 2012 at 00:03:28

      The Western Star wouldn't know "Good reporting" if it bit them, and there was nothing "meaningful" in that article. Not worthy of front page news, and certainly not appropriate for the "Back to school" issue with pictures of little kids inside. I can't even begin to explain how inappropriate it was to have that article on the same page as the article about the death of Tina Dolter. The Editors and writers at the Star don't have a clue between the lot of them. Funny that this comment will soon be removed for "inappropriate content" considering what they publish.

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    Michelle
    - September 5, 2012 at 14:31:56

    Thank you to "Just Sayin'" above...I logged on to say exactly the same thing! I have no problem with these books [having read them ], am far from a prude when it comes to sexual health [ having shopped at these stores myself} but I was appallled to read about " nipple clamps, mini vibrators and butt plugs etc" on the front cover of a FAMILY newspaper. I have always encouraged my children to read the Western Star but I am so glad that they are now practically adults ! I wouldn't want to be having a discussion about sex toys with my young children over the breakfast table! Shame on you Western Star for being so blatantly graphic. There's just no need. I have been a subscriber for over twenty years but I don't know if i will continue if this tone your paper is going to continue with.

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      Western Star? Really?
      - September 6, 2012 at 13:24:11

      I totally agree with Michelle and Just Saying. Even though the article may have been valid and informative it was not appropriate for the Western Star. We have to remember that young adults/children are delivering this article every morning. This is not something they need to be exposed to, especially in that detail. There was much bigger news to report on that day in my opinion, if they felt the need to publish this article, it should have been within the paper, not so blantently exposed to children. Really dissappointed with this article and the Western Star for its decision to have this article featured.

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    Wanda
    - September 5, 2012 at 14:16:58

    will then there is nothing that the star will print i think some of the toys mentioned is a bit much for young readers..... and on another note Peggy you rock!!!!!!

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    Just Sayin'
    - September 5, 2012 at 11:39:37

    Valid story, and all the power to folks who like the extra 'spice'...I think they should have as much romantic fun as possible. I don't think, however, that my young children (my youngest is only 10) should be able to read about '...a little leather whip, blindfold, handcuffs, nipple clamps, mini vibrator, butt plug...' on the front page (or any page, for that matter) of what I understood to be a general publication. The article and it's point (which I have absolutely no issue with) should have been far more careful with it's wording! I prefer to teach my children to be as self-informed as possible about current news, be they local, national, or global events. If I have to worry about content such as this article contained being so easily accessible there will be one less paper being sold each day!

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      Steveo
      - September 10, 2012 at 08:56:50

      Have you ever heard of "the internet"? Your 10 yr old knows how to use it im sure. This article should be the least of your worries.

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    loretta
    - September 5, 2012 at 07:46:06

    Like your article, keep romance alive.I can get silver balls and all other goodies should you ever need more off those..am a consultant with passion parties, so please do not run out off stocknot by a long shot... Thankss

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